• Is Your Current Dating Life Where You Want It To Be?

• Are You Dating Who You Really Want To be Dating Or Are You Settling?

• Could You Do Better?

• Are You Frustrated Because You Feel Like You Are Settling For Less Than You Deserve?

So why don’t you get some help? You know, dating advice.

Bad advice like these is HOLDING YOU BACK from dream dating life…

• Its Not Manly To Ask For Help , Especially When It Comes To Dating Women!

Real men know their weaknesses and the even smarter ones have the courage to improve on those weaknesses.

If anything you would be a coward for lacking the courage to take the steps to improve your dating life.

• I Cant Ask For Help With Women Since Other Men Naturally Know How To Socialize With Women And Date Them!

Only about 5% of men are naturally good with women!

As men, we are never taught how to talk to women and create attraction in women. And mother’s simple advice of being nice guys makes you come last with Beautiful Women.

• Almost Everyone Get Married  Eventually So Why Should I Bother Getting Better At Dating?

Stop and take a look at all the unhappy and broken marriages and relationships out there.

People break up so often now because they are unhappy and dissatisfied with the relationships they are in.

And a lot of the time this is a result of settling for less than you want… less than you deserve!

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Is It Really Better Than Nothing?

These are the 5 top sins that guys perform when interacting with girls and are the core reasons that so many of us find ourselves in the friend zone.

If you have had any experience of being in the friend zone then you will DEFINITELY recognize one or more of these faults in your social style.

So here they are, the 5 shortcuts to the Friend Zone:

1.     Be Clingy

“Absence Make The Heart Grow Fond”

A girl will never miss you if you are always there for her when she needs you and even when she doesn’t!

Most guys have the misconception that being clingy, that is ever present, for the girl you like then you magically open up her eyes to seeing that you are the one guy who will always be there for her and thus resulting in a relationship.

Sounds pretty sound logic doesn’t it?

Well rational thought and the ways of the heart are not on the same page.

So although that line of thought makes sense, in real life, it really doesn’t work out for the best.

Why?

Simply because your being clingy sends the message that she is your number one focus and that your life sought of revolves around her.

Believe it or not, but this is the WRONG message to send a girl because girls like a guy that has his own life going on, a guy who has a focus other than her, goals other than just pleasing her and a guy with a backbone.

Simply put clingy = dependent!

She wants you to be independent! So take some time away from her, be mysteriously aloof every now and then.

Let her want you attention, let her strive to gain it all!

2.     Be Overly Nice And Polite

“Nice guys do finish last!”

Now don’t get me wrong, I am NOT saying that you go out there and be an ass!

No, what I mean is that when you try to be the “Perfect Gentleman” you send out the wrong message, and the message is this:

• I am trying too hard to gain your attention and approval

• I am definitely whipped

• I have no personality of my own and that’s why I am trying to gain your interest and attention with fake acts of politeness and niceness.

• I really don’t know anything about socializing with girls.

So unless you are a royalty or a direct descendant of royalty and you have the accent, finances and wardrobe to march then please don’t try the “Perfect Gentleman” persona as a means to get with a girl.

I know that mummy always said that you need to be nice to the girls and always be polite and a gentleman to girls but as a general rule to avoid the friend zone:

“Listen To Everything Mum Told You About How To Treat A Girl And Do The Exact Opposite!!!”

Read my article on how to be a little bit of an ass to her and why she will love you for it.

3.     Gossip With Her

DO NOT engage in mindless gossip… PERIOD!

Few things make a guy look worse than him being a gossip. It presents the image that you have nothing better to do than to dwell on the lives of others.

Also gossip is usually associated with girls, so a guy gossiping presents a feminine image that you really do not want to have unless you want the girl of your dreams thinking of you as one of the girls!!

4.     Being The Wrong Kind Of Funny

When girls say that they want a guy with a good sense of humor a lot of guys misunderstand what kind of humor she means.

Please note that although most girls like “funny guys”, I am still yet to a girl that loves clowns!

The kind of humor that girls actually like is a playful and sensual form of humor called “Cocky humor”.

Don’t believe me?

Then go out, buy a joke book, memorize some jokes and try and impress a girl… no scratch that… try and just hold her attention with those jokes and see how far you go with thatJ

So why does Cocky Humor work?

Simply because it exhumes a ton of confidence while at the same time building physical and emotional tension between the two of you. In other words, it leaves her thinking of you.

Now for more on Cocky Humor check out my other articles on the matter.

5.     Always Say Yes

The word “No” in the eyes of girls holds more water than the word “Yes”.

Too many guys try to suck up to girls by being super nice to them and being “Yes Men”.

Therefore it sends a powerful message when you are able to tell a pretty girl “No” to a request of hers that she would otherwise expect an obvious “Yes”.

It tells her that you are able to say no to her and thus you are your own man and girls love strong independent guys.

So learn to say no to her if you want her respect… otherwise he only place you will find yourself her “Friend Zone”.

Ending Note:

Some girls are actually looking for some of these qualities in guys. However the resultant relationships are almost always short term and destined to fall.

Why?

Because in the resultant relationships the girl is the man in the relationship and ultimately, all girls want a real man for a real meaningful relationship!

So unless you love being in a whipped relationship then please avoid this five No-No like the PLAGUE!

Watch Out For These Signs:)

1.     “You Know What… You Are Like A Brother To Me.”

Your aim was a relationship yet you ended up getting into the Friend Zone … In fact you have delved so deep into the Friend Zone that you became a “Brother”

If you ever hear these words then congratulations for you are the officially the “King Of The Friend Zone! However, on a serious note if ever hear these words then you really have a problem. No one… No one in their right mind dates their brother! So for your sake, move on and erase from your mind any hopes of getting romantic with her

2.     She Finds It Okay To Talk About Other Guys TO YOU

NOTE:  In this case she is not trying to playful and/or get you slightly jealous.

No! In this case, she constantly comes to you to complain about her mixed feelings for other guys, or even worse, discussing her current relationships with you. If you are in this deep, give up being anything more than a friend… maybe a one night stand if you get lucky.

Let me explain when you reach a point where she is comfortable enough to talk to you about guys she likes then in her mind you will never be one of those guys!

Meaning that she will never feel emotionally attached to you in that way and that is why, unfortunately, you would be the ideal booty as there would be no emotional attachment to complicate the physical nature of such an arrangement.

3.     “I Love The Way I Am NOT AFRAID To Tell You Anything.”

These words are only ideal when you have been in a relationship with zee girl for a while. Otherwise this is generally a warning sign that you are entering or have entered the Friend Zone.

Let me explain…

As a general rule of most girls shy away from revealing everything to a guy they really like, they usually wait a little bit into a relationship before they feel comfortable enough to start revealing their deepest darkest secrets .i.e. their anything.

So if you have become her human diary & you are not even going out with her then wake up and smell the pink roses because you are firmly in the Friend Zone.

4.     She Gets Into A Relationship… With Someone Else

DUH!

This is a no brainier! If what you thought was your best vibe brought about this result then the scientific equation is simple:

You + Her = “Friends Forever”:)

5. “I Think Its Best If We Just Remain Friends”

The translation to this statement is simple:

“Hold your horses there buddy! You’re already in my Friend Zone and that’s why I can’t even imagine going out with you… Save yourself the trouble and go back to my Friend Zone where you belong.”

Yes, this is a direct quotation of from the female dictionary… It is a bit of a harsh but it sometime helps to be blunt!

6.     No Physical Attraction

The desire to want to touch and hold each other is a positive sign for intimate compatibility. So if there is ABSOLUTELY NO physical attraction & tension between the two of you when you are around each other, then you really are deep in the Friend Zone.

FACT: “If a girl can’t think of you in a physical way then you have no chance of getting together with her. You might as well be her brother.”

7.     “Let’s Try Being Good Friends First & Then See Where That Leads”

The translation to this statement is simple:

“You are Friend Zone material and no more! I’m now hoping that if you stay there long enough you will wise up to the fact that you and I cannot be anything more than just friends!”

8.     She Won’t Engage In Flirtatious Talk With You

Many claim that flirting is innocent but any good flirt (like myself) knows that this it is not the case.

In general, people flirt with those they are attracted to or in the very least those we have the potential to be attracted to given the right circumstances. Therefore flirting is used by most girls to hint at attraction, tease and encourage any guy(s) she likes to chase after her.

Simply put, if she is not flirting with you then there is a pretty good chance that you are in the Friend Zone!

9.     “You Are My Best Friend”

Now this is not always a bad thing, right?

Since sometimes girls actually end up going out with their best friends, right?

YOU WISH!!

Let me explain…

The above case of girl dates best friend is statistically less than 1% likely to happen for you or anyone else for that matter. If you have managed the unenviable task of becoming her best friend before her boyfriend then I’ll give you three guesses as to where else you have entered.

Here is a hint, it starts with “Friend” & ends with “Zone”J

10. “I Don’t Want To Risk Losing You As A Friend”

If you didn’t get the reference to the Friend Zone in that comment then read the last 3 words again: As A Friend. Enough saidJ

Listen buddy, if you have experienced any of the above top 10 then the Friend Zone is where you are at and where you will remain for the foreseeable future. Next week, we’ll go over some popular reasons that so many guys find themselves in the friend zone.

Why?

Because identifying how you got into the Friend Zone is the first step in discovering how to get out of zee Friend Zone!

Avoid The Friend Zone Like A Lion In The Jungle:)

The sad truth is this: When it comes to first impressions most guys listen to the little voice inside their heads to guide them on how to approach a girl.

Do you know what that little voice is?

Well, for most guys, that little voice is the years of bad advice that mommy fed them as they grew up; advice on how to approach and treat a girl when you first meet up. And it probably sounds like this:

“Be nice and polite. Don’t be rude and always be perfect gentlemen!”

Now I will admit that there is technically nothing wrong with this advice but as guys, we take this advice and RUN WITH IT… In short, we try and be all that PLUS a huge bag of chips! And that’s when we commit the one or more of the fatal 5 sins to the friend zone. The amazing 5 sins that GUARANTEE almost permanent residency in the friend zone!

*Read my other article to see what these 5 sins are… chances are you are committing them right now*

So as a general rule, take everything your dear sweet mommy told you about socializing with gurls then pretty much do THE EXACT OPPOSITE. It seems odd and really weird but it quite easy if you follow these 4 rules to avoiding the friend zone completely.

Believe me, with these 4 gems in your arsenal when you approach a girl, you are guaranteed to have the gurl thinking of you and missing your company for quite a while.

Just a couple of weeks ago, I used them to get the number of a really cute flight attendant after less than 10 minutes of conversation… and she commented on how she couldn’t believe she was actually giving me her number!

1. Shock Factor

There are basically two parts to achieving the desired shock factor that creates attraction:

• Be Bold And Daring In Your Speech

Be willing to be outrageous and even sometimes border-line improper when you first meet up with her.

Sometimes even the wrong thing said, can become the right thing to say, as long as you are confident, calm and charming as you say it!

But be careful not cross the line and end up being foul, as you will probably insult her and thus turn her off.

• Challenge her

Don’t be afraid of calling her out on her crap or just simply challenging her points of view.

The trick is to do it a manner that encourages her to try and defend her stand without making it feel too serious or too confrontational.

By challenging her, you show her that you have a back bone and your aim is not to suck up to her until she somehow magically notices you!

FACT: Beautiful girls don’t have they views challenged very often.

They are used to having their own way, so think about it… how special and different will you appear to her when you are able to playfully challenge her?

2. Humor

If you can make a girl laugh you are already halfway into the door to her mind.

But be warned that cute girls DON’T have crushes on clowns. So the trick is to be funny without looking like a clown in her eyes!

But how do you do that? Use corky humor.

This is the only humor that makes a girl laugh and also creates the right kind of attraction that you are looking for. Corky humor is multi-leveled as it accomplishes a lot of things at the same time.

When you use corky humor you are not only funny but witty as well. This wit can be playful, in the sense that you tease her in the process. This communicates a playful nature as well as the confidence to tease her & not suck up to her like most guys probably do.

The bare fact remains that regardless of how you look at it corky humor is an essential to having great conversations with gurls because if you can’t make a gurl laugh then you are in trouble. Corky humor is nothing short of social GOLD.

“Warning: You can’t successfully perform corky humor without the next little gem!”

3. Confidence

This is without a doubt the MOST IMPORTANT tool a guy needs to be a success in any girl.

Why? Simply because confidence is attractive to girls… pride isn’t, but confidence is!

Also only with confidence will you truly be able to boldly and correctly implement, any social techniques you attempt. Social techniques used in a shy manner will NOT work even though you technically did everything right. The problem is that confidence isn’t just a verbal attribute but also a physical attribute.

Studies have shown that only about 30% of all communication is verbal; the other 70% is all non-verbal communication.

So when it comes to confidence you not only have to sound confident but also appear confident; and this means having the right Body Language to not only create confidence but also non-verbally communicate confidence!

*Read my other articles to learn more on how to use body language to create and communicate Self Confidence*

4. Relaxed State Of Mind And Body

Now once you learn the right body language to create and communicate your new found confidence then you enter the next phase; when in a relaxed state of mind and body, you become what is known as charming.

Let me describe how this feels…

You will naturally feel your body relax, the tone of your voice smoothen out, your speech become more relaxed and your mind will stop racing. When you are in this relaxed state, your mind and body seems to go into automatic and you stop having to work at push the conversation onwards. The words literally seem to come out of your mouth without any stress and with little effort. You will find yourself genuinely smiling more often and the muscles on you face seem to relax.

Now this, my friend, is where you DEFINITELY want to end up.

WARNING: If you are able to implement these 4 gems into your everyday conversations then every one of your first impressions with girls will be memorable and fun to both you and her. In other words, you will never have to worry about being automatically drafted into the “Friend Zone”